Sex Toys Are for Men as Well as Women

When ever anyone mentions sex toys they always only thing about women and vibrators, but i can assure you that there are many many more treats in store than just vibrators and there are also lots of toys for men as well as women.

Most of us out there love having sex with other people as it is fun and exciting and we get to get all hot and sweaty and feel like animals lol.

But there are times when it can be just as nice to lock yourself away and have some one on one time with yourself.  This is the time when you can go at your own pace and take time pleasuring the places you want to.  This said this is where having a great range of sex toys and sex DVD's can really bring the whole experience alive.

Just look at some of the fun these guys and girls are having with theres:

Now that is what i call having some one on one fun.  Masturbation may still be a bit of a taboo topic these days but if you are secure enough to do it yourself then why not treat yourself to some amazing toys to make the experience that much better??  I know i do lol

Chris & Zoe

The Pleasure Zone

The Pleasure Zone Blog

Do Women Really Enjoy Porn?

This could be one of the biggest questions on your mans mind and he will be begging to know the answer to....

Do women like porn? Is there really “porn for women to really enjoy?” and how do i find out if she wants to look at some porn?

Do women read sex blogs, cruise porn sites, watch sexually explicit videos and buy themselves sex toys for their own pleasure? Of course they do!!

Women's fantasies are just as much about fucking, as they are about shopping or going out on a romantic date!!

Women enjoy porn and erotica of all kinds, and that is a well known fact – don’t listen to sensationalists who would like to convince you otherwise women get just as much fun and excitement from porn or erotic as men do, but at times they like to see it done a little more tastefully. 

Given the fact that we own our own sex store and offer a couples escort service we come into contact with many many women in need of some sexual interaction and we can safely say that porn plays just as much of a role in their lives and it does in any mans.

For women its about finding quality sex blogs or porn sites that offer quality sex stories or tasteful porn videos that don't just have women with fake tans and bad boob jobs getting gang banged by 8 blokes all at once.  A woman wants to be able to visualise the situation and be able to find herself within the action within her mind this is how to truly get a woman to embrace the world of porn.

Tasteful Porn

Less Tasteful Porn (but can be very fun to try lol)

I hope you have found some of this interesting or useful and if you have any comments or things that you would like to see us try or write about then please let us know?

Chris & Zoe

The Pleasure Zone

the-pleasure-zone@live.co.uk

6 Interesting Role Play Sex Games

This is another great post by Ask Dan & Jennifer so thought i would let all you guys have a taste of what they have to offer.

Role play and sex games can be so much fun, but many of them have been played out. Doctor and patient, French maid and even dirty cop have been done over and over again and honestly, where’s the excitement in that? Here are seven role play sex games you probably have never tried! These will not only surprise your man, but give him something to fantasise about for weeks!

1. Photographer & Model

This is a fun one that you don’t really need any costumes, lingerie or props for, unless you want them. All you need is a camera and whether it’s on your phone, a fancy digital camera or a crappy web cam, you can still have tons of fun with this role play game. Take turns switching between the photographer and model roles, so each of you gets to take pictures of the other. Come up with sexy poses, or take close ups of your lover’s most intimate areas.

Have a blast looking over the photos afterwards – you can even run them through a free on line photo editor if you don’t have one installed on your computer to make them look even better. Delete them or keep them, it doesn’t matter. Bonus points if you have a timer and a tripod and can do photos of you and your partner together. 

2. New Age Artist

Get some body paints (edible or not, depending on what you’d like to do with them) and pretend you’re a new age artist whose canvas is your lover’s naked body. Don’t be afraid to get really into your role play and create a real work of art. If you’re actually really artistic, all the better! You can even take photos of your work and bring a bit of the photographer/model sex game into this if you like. If your body paints are edible, have fun licking them off! Don’t forget to let your partner paint you as well.

3. Mermaid Fantasy

Any guy who has ever seen Daryl Hannah in the 1980′s movie Splash has a mermaid fantasy – guaranteed. Play up on this by either renting or buying a mermaid costume. Curl your hair with loose waves (or crimp it like Daryl Hannah’s – hey, it was the 80′s, remember?) and throw some beads or seashells in there if you can. Body glitter is also great for this too – use your imagination to create a really ethereal mermaid look.

This is also an excellent bathtub sex game, but if you’ve done a lot of work on your hair and makeup, you’ll probably want to engage in a fair amount of foreplay and fun before you get soaking wet.

4. Vampire & Prey

No, this is not the kind of sex game where you beg your partner to don orange-gold contacts, body glitter and suck on ice before he kisses you. Although if your partner is into that, go for it. A real vampire/prey role play borders a little bit on the BDSM side, and can easily become an excellent game of domination if you’re into that kind of thing.

Dress the part with black clothes and smoky dark makeup. A really pouty mouth with fire engine red lipstick will complete the look if you can pull it off. Or, if your partner would rather be dominant, let him get his Bram Stoker on and you play the helpless victim. However, if you plan on doing any real biting or bloodletting, make sure you observe some safety precautions first.

5. Storybook Characters

Many guys have a bit of a fetish for storybook characters like little red riding hood or many of the Disney Princesses. Seriously though, who didn’t think that Princess Jasmine was totally hot in Aladdin – especially in her slave-to-Jafar outfit? The Princess Leia slave outfit is also a HUGE fantasy among many guys. Let the princess inside you out and dress up in your man’s favourite character. Don’t be afraid to lay it on thick either!

Military/Drill Sergeant

Again, this is an excellent role play when you want to incorporate some submission and domination. You can often find old military clothes at surplus outlets or warehouses, and they’re often pretty inexpensive. Have fun ordering your man to do push ups for you, or other naughty things like perform oral sex on you. If you like to be the submissive one, let your partner have fun ordering you around! Bonus points if you can “roll around in the grass” and get a little dirty too.

If any of these ideas take your fancy then come check out our large range of fantasy costumes over at The Pleasure Zone and put a real spring back in his cock lol

Chris DeBond
The Pleasure Zone
the-pleasure-zone@live.co.uk

We Always Like To Personally Test The Sex Products That We Sell

How many sex shop owners can honestly say that they make sure the products that they sell to the public are fully tried and tested?  Probably not many but us here at The Pleasure Zone take great pride and satisfaction in testing them personally :-)

As you can see from some of the pictures below me make sure we personally test as many of our products as possibly in between our other adventures as escorts also.

10 Inch Jelly Dong

Well what can we say about this monster it is made of a firm jelly mold and at a whopping 10 inches it can really hit the spot.

As you can see from the picture it certainly did satisfy me and has become a real favourite when we route through our range of toys to find a helping hand if you know what i mean lol.









Rabbit Vibrator

Well how can you ever go wrong with the Rabbit Vibrator?  This is one of our standard Rabbit Vibrators but has a dual rotation function as well as a multi speed vibration system that really does deliver a fantastic sensation.

This product is a must for any woman as part of her sex toy range.

If you want to see some of the great sex toys we stock or if you are looking for some sexy lingerie, fantasy uniforms or bondage aids then please come see us at The Pleasure Zone.

Chris & Zoe
The Pleasure Zone
the-pleasure-zone@live.co.uk

The sex toys taboo!

There is a certain taboo around sex shops and sex toys, but these are slowly being laid to rest as more and more people are buying sex toys and accessories due to the ease of availability on the World Wide Web.

People feel far more comfortable being able to search and browse sexual products from the comfort and safety of their own home. They do not have to leave the house or put up with the crowds in town centres, they do not have to look shop assistants in the eyes while buying a new vibrator or vibrating sex beads etc and feeling embarrassed by knowing what they will be using these new products for.

The sale of sex accessories has sky rocketed over the last 5 years due mainly to the increase in online adult entertainment stores which sell everything from sexy lingerie to sexual toys and fantasy uniforms. This industry is one of the fastest growing on the web today and in my opinion is only going to keep getting bigger.

The introduction of parties at home for selling sexual products has taken the stigma away from these items and it has become a fashionable way for groups of girl friends to spend an evening rather than going for a night out on the town.

We here at The Pleasure Zone pride ourselves on supplying high quality sexual products at fantastic prices and take great delight in ensuring that adults out there can easily find these products and for fill their ultimate desires.

Mr C P DeBond
The Pleasure Zone

"Society and Sex" an erotic sex story by Sextails

I found this article while surfing the web and though it was very interesting so i thought i would copy it to my blog for you guys to read!

Most men feel that they are much more sexual than women. After all, men think about sex every 2 to 5 minutes or so they say. Men also think that they have to talk women into having sex. Most men have been taught to be good boys or gentlemen and to suggest sex to a woman is insulting.

So what is the actual reality of women and sex? It took me ages to realize this, but women are much more sexual than men. In fact, they are much more sexual than most men can ever imagine.

To get an idea of this, read any women's sexual fantasy book. Women's sexual fantasies are much more developed than just about any mans. They can be elaborate and emotional and very descriptive and powerful. They incorporate taboo subjects, such as being dominated or in bondage and can be very slutty.

So why do most of us think that women don't like sex that much. I feel that parents teach their girls that you must be in love and in a committed relationship or married for sex. So their daughter will not go out and have sex and get pregnant. Society also says that a woman who really loves sex is a slut. Men are studs if they have a lot of sex with many women. A woman that has multiple partners is called a slut. This is why that even although a women love sex they will not admit this to someone that they do not know. Women do not want to be treated as objects.

Many women and some men too have had sexual abuse in their past. Some of us have had religious guilt about sex and masturbation. These factors can cripple the enjoyment of sex and intimacy. It takes a lot of healing before sex can be really enjoyed after abuse. I feel all of us have had some negative conditioning about sex. You were born as the result of an orgasm. Why not celebrate that fact! Other societies have celebrated the sex orgasms. Why not western societies?

When you walk down the street, do you hear men and women having orgasms? Not usually. Most of us block our sounds in sex due to our sexual shame. In my private practice as a sexologist, one aspect I suggest is to open up to the natural sounds during sex. If you block the sounds you block the full range of energy in your body.

In fact, I suggest to experiment making huge sounds into a pillow so not to deafen your lover. Men love a responsive woman that makes orgasmic sounds but most not want to do the same. Talking to women, I am surprised about how bad most men are as lovers. What is even more surprising is that most women put up with this!

Most men's orgasms are only a minute or two in length. However, a woman has the potential to have 2 to 3 hour orgasms even without stimulation. I have known several women that have explored the possibility of being orgasmic when working in an office! Most men do not realize this, but they can have orgasms without ejaculation. So I would like to leave you with the thought that women love sex. Women love to be naughty and slutty. Try some dirty talking during your next sexual experience.

Hi there guys I guess thats some food for thought? Now that you know your partner is really a secret sex maniac why not come and check out The Pleasure Zone and pick her up some little sexual treats?

Guidelines For Escorting

Basic Rules When Working as an Escort 

 Escorts in the UK earn a lot of money, as there is a huge client-base present in the larger cities. Thousands of businessmen travel here for various trips and vacations, and they want somebody to keep them company and give them pleasure. Working as an escort is largely risk free because for the most part, and more importantly, it is legal and is considered a professional business. If you are considering a career - short term or long terms, part time or full time - there are a few basic rules you can follow. These guidelines are to ensure that you keep earning the money you want, and be safe at the same time.

Screen your client

The most basic rule when you meet new clients is to screen them thoroughly, and find out as much about them as possible. Here is what you can do it. Ask the client to fill a form on your website or provide the required information by email. Primarily you want to know his name (real), phone number (fixed line). The above information is enough for you to do your basic research. The fixed line number is important. Don’t take just the mobile number. If you have the former, you can call and verify that the client indeed is staying or living there. Check out escort forums where experiences with clients are posted. This is done by real escorts, so you can trust them to post the right information. Escorts usually only post about clients anonymously when they turn out to be abusive. They do so to alert other escorts about such people.

Travelling

Arrange for your own transport. Arrive at the place by yourself and have arrangements in advance for travelling back from the client’s place. Don’t accept your client’s pick up and drop. Tell the client to mention the location where they will meet directly. Inform that you do not need to be picked up from anywhere. If he is staying at a hotel, ask him to mention its name. Some clients ask you to meet at a place and then take you to another place. The client should mention clearly where you will be going, so that you can plan to have a backup. If you travel with the client to another place, insist on public transport or a cab that you book.

Arriving

Arrive at the meeting place about 15mins early. Check out the surroundings. If the place is too noisy with music blaring, leave immediately. This is especially true if you are going to the client’s private residence. Ensure that your client is alone and nobody is with him in the room. You have agreed to be an escort for only one person at a time. On arriving, check if there is a door in the room that opens into a neighboring one. If so, leave immediately because it could be a trap set up for you. As soon as you arrive, ask for the money to be paid immediately. Don’t wait until the end, when the client might be too drunk or reveal that he has no money to pay you.

Getting paid

Don’t take credit cards from your client as payment. It may have no credit. Even if it has money, the client may dispute it later. Firstly, you don’t get paid and secondly, you may have to pay a lawyer to defend you. Don’t take checks from your client for payment. Checks can be linked to your checking account with your real name. Don’t take a money-order from your client as payment. The client will know your address and may stalk you. Accepting cash is also safe, if you can be sure that the currency is not a fake. If you want to be extra careful about the money, ask for a donation instead of fees. This will avoid you being framed for prostitution if there is a problem.

Professionalism

You are a professional escort and not a prostitute, although you have sex with your client. Have control over your client at all times, don’t lose it. Don’t speak unnecessary things with your client. You can talk in a way that arouses him, but don’t talk about love. Some clients have the habit of getting attached to you after a few meetings. They may forget that you are an escort providing you service for money. When having sex, always use a condom, to avoid any health issues. If the client is not clean, refuse to have sex with him. Bring your own condoms to the client. Whether it is for you or for the client, it should be your condom. You don’t know what your client’s condom contains. It could be a used one, which poses even more health problems. Always be polite and cordial when talking with your client. It enhances your image as a professional person and the client will enjoy your company even more.

All the above rules may make it sound like being an escort is fraught with danger. At least in the UK, this is definitely not the case. The rules mentioned above are just so that you are prepared for extreme situations.